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DIVING DEEPER: A Writing Workshop

Do you feel compelled to write,  but something is stopping you from getting on with it?

Do you feel you have a story to tell, or simply something 'to say' but don't know how to start, or how to continue?

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Required Reading - Brenda Ueland

Sandra said Aug 16, 6:39 AM:

 

Okay, so finally I am here to talk a bit about Brenda Ueland's book ”If You Want to Write: A Book About Art, Independence and Spirit' Ruth posted up a quote from.

About the same time Ruth posted the quote, I had been digging through my boxes of books that had been in storage for over 7 years. I have a few on writing ( not many, considering ), and this was one of them. It had been on a book list Barbara Turner, who taught me Freefall, had sent out. I had not read it, and felt drawn to it so I put it on my desk to have a look at. After reading the quote, and Siona's note on the thread, I started to read it.

I think everyone should go out and get a copy. You can find it on Amazon easily.

Brenda was a writer and teacher of writing who wrote well into her  She wrote the book in 1938 and her writing has this marvellous humour and irreverence.  Wiki says: Brenda was raised in a relatively progressive household; her father was a prominent lawyer and judge. Her mother was a suffragette and served as the first president of the Minnesota League of Women Voters. Brenda would spend her life as a staunch feminist and is said to have lived by two rules: To tell the truth, and to not do anything she didn't want to.

This makes her sound a bit serious, she is not that at all. And the book itself is an absolute treasure chest of inspiration - not on what to write, but on exactly the kinds of thing we try to encourage her in Diving Deeper: '”Try to discover your true, honest, un-theoretical self.” She shows (yes, shows, with wonderful examples from her students) how everyone has a unique and beautiful voice. She tells us why most of us feel we do not, and what the result is. She shows you how to find the unique and beautiful voice.

She talks about children, and that the way you ”are to feel when you are writing [is] -happy, truthful, and free, with that wonderful contented absorption of a child stringing beads in a kindergarten.”

So much of what she talks about will resonate: she suggested to her pupils to 'write badly':

” I found that many gifted people are so afraid of writing a poor story that they cannot summon the nerve to write a single sentence for months. the thing to say to such people is: “See how bad a story you can write. Go ahead… I will give you ten dollars if you can write something thoroughly dull from beginning to end!” And of course no one can.

Try this yourself. It is a relief and you see then how you are not dull at all. It is just as guilty people who are always trying to be so good, should try to be very bad and resolve to stick to it they would find then how natural it comes to them to be good and ould not stain after it, which makes them hypocrites, though in a nice way.

Well, when I told the timid people in the class to see how badly they could write it would give them the courage to venture a few little sentences. And since everybody who is human cannot say a sentence without revealing something-something mild or violent or waggish in their souls- or without having something fine in it, I would point this out. Courage would expand and they would gradually write more.”

Now, I haven't finished the book, and there is much in it that not only explores much of what we talk about here, but in her own glorious way, she also talks about things I hadn't thought of - at least not recently. The importance of being idle. “- because thoughts come so slowly. For what we write today slipped into our souls some other day when we were alone and doing nothing.”

 She talks about how we drive ourselves, how we keep doing something, pushing and pressing to get things done, to achieve, rushing about and so forth.

”.. nervous, empty, continually willing action is sterile and the faster you run and accomplish a lot of useles things, the more you are dead.” She encourages an hour or so of vacant 'doodling' a day..”So, if you want to write try this: go into your room alone. Resign yourself tranquilly to do something slow and worthless for at least an hour. Take a pencil or sit before your typewriter and look out of the window..”

Brenda also talks about the things we 'do' to 'help' us write - smoke, drink coffee; and how often just at the moment a real idea is about to come forth, that is so often when we might get up to make a coffee, light a cigarette etcetera, and the idea is avoided. I would say this is the time when the writing wants to 'go fearward', but we do something ( eg, stop, because the 20 minutes of the assignment is 'up''; tell ourselves the children need a look in, etc).

There is much much more here, and I truly hope everyone will go out and get a copy of this book. It is rare I feel like this about a book 'about writing' - so often I find that reading such books is a way of avoiding writing, or they make us feel like we cannot write, it's too difficult, too much work and so on. But not this book. It is the perfect accompaniment to Diving Deeper. It is not just about writing or creating art, it is about living.

 And, it is a delightful read.

I will probably add to this thread more later, when I've finished the book.

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Re: Required Reading - Brenda Ueland

Sandra said Aug 18, 3:38 AM:

 

I've just written a bit about something Brenda recommends in a comment to Andy's wonderful “Faster than you can think” assignment. It's about keeping a daily 'diary' of entries where you type/write so fast that you don't ponder or try to write 'well'. Have a read of what I said here.