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AND how do you convince people, motivate people to work for the collective - which may not appear to be as immediately profitable (rather than placing the individual or single corporation first over other individuals and corporations) as a healthier option for all?
generally speaking, we radically suck at relationships. The one thing that could have the potential to save humanity, and humanity's home, is simply not taught in the schools.
How to effectively be in relationships.
Yet, the schools do teach competition and how to subordinate others in a drive for individual success and success is always what you do in contrast to the failure of others. Little Suzy succeeded in answering the teachers question in contrast to Johnny's failure. Now Johnny realizes, rather traumatically I might add, that he must strive to be better than Suzy if he wishes to conform to the paradigm of success.
One wonders if both Johnny and Suzy were taught how to effectively relate to and engage with one another as equal participants, could that trust negate the trauma of failure?
Teach relationships in the schools. This seems so fundamentally basic as to be laughable. Maybe that's why it's not taught!
Alas, we are left to learn to relate to one another effectively from teachers who may not only may fail to succeed in the world on the world's terms (based on what is taught in schools) but also fail in basic relating skills. These teachers are called parents. Therefore, since most have not even mastered the basics, we are left to make “discoveries piece by piece in relation to other.” Yet, we may not have the luxury of such delay any longer. Current events are beginning to repeat the past.
Relationship 101.
I have written about this and even petitioned the local schools. but alas, I'm seen as a nutcase. Teach basic relating skills?! hahaha! What a maroon!
learning to effectively relate with others, especially in regard to our so-called “loving” relationships (which are our biggest failures) need not be taught as “working for the collective” but simply as necessary and beneficial to the 'self.' Learning to effectively, and even compassionately relate to others, makes ego dynamics readily apparent. It's not freakin' rocket science I'm talkin about here.
My theory is that if we just learned the basics, compassion, kindness, thoughtfullness, sympathy, etc, we could experience an almost instantaneous revision of the social fabric. No, actually, the schools teach and perpetuate the complete opposite of this. Schools have become an egoic battlefield for most kids (especially our public schools).
Geez, I often wonder why our esteemed and revered enlightened masters aren't teaching this? Most likely because if you learn to relate effectively with others, the rewards of that will be exponentially magnified. This would obviously put the “masters” out of business because their proprietary truth might become common knowledge.
Hahaa! mikeS
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