Why Deida gained such popularity I don't know.

Of course “the way of the superior man” is the best
and it offers some valuable advice .. but everything else..
I am thinking he is just an ordinary pervert, obnoxious individual
who Is having a good laugh
that someone is publishing his books very often filled with vulgarity and obscenity.

(No I am not a puritan.
I am an European. )

He thinks he knows women but I have not read even one chapter where he would take under consideration our individuality;
where he would consider the fact that WE are not created equal.

In his books for women, he presents excuses for men behaviour on nearly every page and encourages women to shut up, serve the man,  lose (and loose)  themselves, i.e.
to become what he wants you to become,
“becasue what he wants you to be is usually what you want to be”

Please….!

Reading Deida's books made me feel bad, guilty and dirty.

Not recommended.

I've been reading this one slowly and have found David's teaching to be totally powerful! His whole take on what spirituality looks like when informed by the feminine essence is priceless. This is a work to be taken in slowly, deliberately! love this. I'm hoping to attend one of the NYC-area seminars in the very near future.