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  Maryl : The Happy Medium & Dream Decoder

Prayers and Forgiveness for Daniel D.

Maryl said Oct 16, 12:08 PM:

 

All,

I am a psychic medium currently working on a case (unofficially) to help locate a murder victim's remains.  Becky was murdered a year and a half ago by her boyfriend Daniel.  Before police could arrest him, he committed suicide, leaving no clue as to where he'd dumped her remains.  Her family and the community have searched fruitlessly for her remains for a year and a half.

Becky does not have a clear perception of where her remains are located, but Daniel does.  To this point, Daniel has been unwilling to assist psychic detectives in locating her remains.  I have sensed a change in Daniel's energy - his anger and panic is softening to remorse.  I believe a lot of the reason he's been unwilling to cooperate with psychic detectives is because of the pervasive energy of anger and hatred towards him for taking Becky's life.  Hatred begets hatred, and in this case, hatred has proved counterproductive, as it always does.

In order to fully enlist Daniel's assistance in locating Becky's remains, we need to continue this softening of his anger to remorse.  The only way to do this is with love and forgiveness.

We have an opportunity to help bring peace to two lost souls.  Please pray for Daniel and for forgiveness of his crime, so that we can bring peace and closure to the families once and for all.

Warmest Regards, Love and Light,
Maryl E.

  jakeunity : Light Daemon

Re: Prayers and Forgiveness for Daniel D.

jakeunity said Nov 3, 12:00 AM:

 

Thank you for your work. The world needs an ever growing base of people such as yourself and first i was just going to have a short prayer for your thread, I noticed no one replied, which could seem like no one noticed, but on behalf of those who only read and prayed with no posting, love and appreciation from many tender hearts :)

  jakeunity : Light Daemon

Re: Prayers and Forgiveness for Daniel D.

jakeunity said Nov 3, 12:02 AM:

 

and it would help the prayer process if full names or pictures were included… thanx

  earthheartconnection : a new dawning

Re: Prayers and Forgiveness for Daniel D.

earthheartconnection said Nov 3, 11:50 AM:

 

I apologise for not having written this sooner. I did read your post and it was on my mind..I even “wrote” the reply in my thoughts however I went about my daily life and that was where my replied stayed…in my mind.
Your request was/is a good test of the love that is professed by many and yet often only practiced by some. Yes, I do send prayers out to the person who commited this horrendous crime as he too needs love and support…as you say, perhaps when he receives it he may  be more inclined to offer up the position in which he has left the deceased body. This does sound gruesome when it is written however the 3D existence that we live in has, at times the reality of being harsh. It is these lessons that we are given to see how far we truly are on the ascension ladder.
So please receive the prayers and thoughts that I am sending out to Daniel D, and his family and ALL those who have been involved in this. Bless you, you are a good friend and person to yourself and all those who know you.
This has been a good test on unconditional love…I wonder how many have truly passed it, or are there others like me who did intend to respond and just didn't. Ah the power of intent.
love and blessings to you jakeunity and all who know you. I am a great believer that like attracts like, we live in a mirror world where what we see in others is a pure reflection of ourselves. You reflect back great love and forgiveness and for this I thank you. Dianne

  Maryl : The Happy Medium & Dream Decoder

Re: Prayers and Forgiveness for Daniel D.

Maryl said Nov 3, 3:07 PM:

 

I received a message from a Gaian who was trying to understand my perspective and the point of forgiving a murderer.  I wanted to share my reply with everyone. 

Forgiveness does not release the offender from the consequences of his or her crime.   Forgiveness is also about trusting in the justice system and the inevitable process of divine justice (or karma) - that even when our earthly justice system fails, we persist in the faith that all deeds will be brought to balance eventually, even if we do not get to witness those consequences in this lifetime. 

While forgiveness does not mean we forget or excuse, forgiveness  releases us as the forgivers from the consequences of our anger towards someone.  Righteous anger is sometimes necessary as a mechanism of self-defense, but when it crosses the line to long-standing hatred and vengefulness, it becomes spiritually and physically depleting. When we forgive and leave the consequences in the hands of Spirit (God), we release ourselves from unnecessary suffering. 

Moreover, forgiveness gives the offender's soul an opportunity to evolve – space and room to grow and become something other than what it once was.  Sadly, most people tend to resign themselves to living up to the judgments and labels others have stuck on them rather than defy those labels.  It's human nature.  Of course evolution is always the offender's choice… but by forgiving, we absolve ourselves of any responsibility for limiting that soul's opportunity to evolve… not to mention that by forgiving, we set an example for the offender and others as well. 

Namaste,
Maryl

P.S. Beckime Elshani and Daniel Dereere are the names of the victim and perpetrator. 

  earthheartconnection : a new dawning

Re: Prayers and Forgiveness for Daniel D.

earthheartconnection said Nov 3, 4:08 PM:

 

Thank you Maryl for your post. There are times when each of us need to practice forgiveness in some form or another…it is especially hard sometimes to forgive others the wrongs they have done to us or ourself  for the wrongs that we have commited against others.
I have learned from my own experience that once I practiced the art of forgiveness my life took on a lightness I had not experienced before, as I learned to set myself free from all the negative emotions I had created within myself by holding onto grudges. It is not our place to judge or criticise another's behaviour, nor our own..rather we do better by changing what we don't like and creating what we want….A world of light and love.
By sending out forgiveness to others we also lighten our own load.
A very powerful affirmation I learned years ago and I still use it when the need arises is one that comes from Louise Hays Meditations to Heal your Life.. “Forgiveness is the healing tool I carry with me everywhere”
We are being encouraged at this time to learn the art of forgiveness and to send healing blessings of love to all and as we do so the wave of this compassion will wash over our world. Isn't this what we want?
We know that by sending light and love to tormented people in war torn parts of this world and saying ” I am living in a world of light and love” works better than when we sit in judgment and hate as all this does is keep the energy of hatred and bitterness going. I feel this same energy of forgiveness applies to this case we are discussing.
We can do well as a society to practice forgiveness in all forms of our life.
I send loving and healing blessings to the family of the victim, Beckime Elshami, may her soul rest in peace and to those connected with Daniel Dereere…may they all find the peace they need.

  nion : Mirror of the Souls within

Re: Prayers and Forgiveness for Daniel D.

nion said Nov 5, 4:00 AM:

 

This heartfelt message and request will be answered.

May the earth-bound energies of Becky and Daniel be transformed for the highest good, so their soul journey may continue on another plane. Wishing for the opening of the eyes and hearts of their loved ones, providing the space for healing and release of negative emotions.

A prayer for you as well dear Maryl, for giving guidance in this case. I wish for a positive outcome for all involved and for your personal well-being in bringing clarity in this case.