Re: Dealing with a hate crime

http://ec-visible.gaia.com — Tue, 19 Dec 2006 20:55:25 GMT

I am not specifically buddhist, nor have I recent experience of dealing with a hate crime consciously, but your description of anger and suspicion arising sound personally familiar in dealing with other challenges that have surfaced for me.

I'm sure you've heard much of this before, but I find observing the breath and sensations that are arising in the body when I am noticing anger and fear coming up to be the most helpful. Consciously reconnecting and become a careful observer, finding choices in the space that the breath creates. Generally a bit of insight or clarity follows rather soon, and I haven't continued toward acting out the anger or running away from the fear in an unconscious manner.

Love to you and your friend.

Dealing with a hate crime

http://amayfaire.gaia.com — Tue, 07 Nov 2006 14:55:29 GMT

These two weeks I have been dealing with a hate crime against a gay young man in my community. It has been difficult, to say the least. But I was struck this week by my reactions- virulent anger, and suspicion. One of my friends asked me how I was dealing with my anger, and if it was manifesting itself in my actions. I have since spent time meditating on this question, and come to realize that it has. I am more suspicious, more fearful, and more defensive than I have been in some time. Has anyone encountered these feelings before? How did you deal with them?

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Dealing with a hate crime