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Healthy Boundaries

Are you a people pleaser? A wall builder? Do you accommodate others too much—or not at all?

Boundaries can be thought of in the simplest terms as “Where I stop and where you begin.” Particularly for women, the notion of boundaries is quite revolutionary, since we live in a culture that teaches us that our bodies, minds, and...(more)
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Let's use this space to get to know each other and discuss general topics related to boundaries that don't fit into the categories below. Please start a new thread for each new topic rather than renaming threads in the middle....   Go ▸
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Kira : Creative Quester Kira said: hi rugged_gurl1, and thanks for your post -- I agree that learning about boundaries is a lifetime quest -- I've been learning about...
In this space we'll explore different boundary styles: intact, absent, damaged, variable, and rigid.  Go ▸
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Kira : Creative Quester Kira said: Vivi-Mari, I think there's a huge difference between being cruel and being firm about one's boundaries -- women get a lot of messages...
In this space we can explore the boundaries we inherited from our parents and families—and what we want to do with our inheritance. Keep it? Chuck it? Sort through it?  Go ▸
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Kira : Creative Quester Kira said: hey Nicole, good to have you back -- I've definitely noticed your absence I don't know why the new year has such meaning...
The physical boundary has to do with our right to determine how close someone gets to us physically and how they interact with us physically. That can range from how close someone stands or sits to us, to whether we...   Go ▸
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Kira : Creative Quester Kira said: Martha, thanks for your courage in sharing your insights so openly -- it's amazing how the "outside world" sometimes delivers its lessons...
The emotional boundary is about our right to our feelings—without justifying them, without needing to make sense of them. Our feelings belong to us and we have a right to them. —Pia Mellody  Go ▸
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Dana : Life Weaver Dana said: Thanks, Kira, that sounds great. I really don't want to bring up anything negative, and I do feel that I need to leave...
The mental boundary has to do with our right to think what we think, and to have our own beliefs and opinions, regardless of whether they're rational, in agreement with the latest statistics, or considered wrong or crazy by an...   Go ▸
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Shameslaya : Tantrika Kosmocentria Shameslaya said: MMMM...thanx for the distinction Kira....yeah my contact boundary both at work and personally remain fluid but i am more likely to take the...
The spiritual boundary is about our right to our own spiritual beliefs, regardless of how we were raised or what anyone else believes. —Pia Mellody  Go ▸
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Shameslaya : Tantrika Kosmocentria Shameslaya said: O yeah Red...b@@@ll@@ks....thanks for the pickup...thought i was confounding the magical with the mythical...actually I enjoy chatting with fundamentalists...post later...
Let's use this space to discuss ways to communicate with others about our boundaries. Topics include ways to say yes and no, ways to set appropriate limits and allow people in as we choose, and when to be diplomatic versus...   Go ▸
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Nicole : wakingdreamer Nicole said: That is terrific, Kira! Love Nicole
Here we can explore how individual boundaries affect families, groups, and the planet as a whole.  Go ▸
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Nishtha : Imaginative Mellifluous Philosopher Nishtha said: Martha, thanks to you reintroducing me to the wonderful conversations in this group, I found my way back to this discussion thread. Regarding...
Here we can explore appropriate boundaries in different kinds of relationships: parent/child, intimate partners, siblings, friends, employer/employee, etc.  Go ▸
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Kira : Creative Quester Kira said: hi Jon, thank you for sharing your thoughts -- I agree that there are times when renegotiating one's agreements is called for --...
This is a place to share favorite quotations and poetry relevant to the topic of boundaries. (Please no super-long entries.) It's also a place where we can share our successes related to boundaries and inspire each other.  Go ▸
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Kira : Creative Quester Kira said: Robin, what you shared is really powerful -- I'm going to refer to your post for inspiration as I move out into the...
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