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There seems to be TONS of controversy over whether this stuff really works on the internet, and I’d like to hear from people who have been using it for a while so I can cut out the speculation.
Basically my goal is this, I want to completely change my beliefs/self-image etc.
My whole life (well apart from the pre-1st grade period) I’ve acted super introverted, quiet etc… Had massive trouble connecting to people or even just holding a conversation. They’re some weird exceptions to this though like I do have several awesome friends that I feel totally cool with and I feel absolutely comfortable and even EMPOWERED making speeches in front of others for school or whatever. This shows me it’s just a belief thing and not some deep-rooted psychological problem.
I’ve set about tackling this by forcing myself into “tough” social situations repeatedly. I go clubbing with a friend of mine very frequently (I’m 20) meeting girls etc.
About a month ago something snapped and I an amazing connection with a beautiful girl which led to some… other stuff ;). But needless to say, I [b]turned into a different person overnight[/b]. It was mindboggling to me. I thought differently, I saw the world differently, I acted differently. It was like the volume knob on the world was turned down and I just felt way WAY more confident (whereas previously I’d had literally ZERO self-confidence… completely insecure)
Now… unfortunately this went away in like 2 days. But it shows me that I’m capable of being THAT guy. That charismatic, charming, funny, social, confident guy.
I continue to push myself, but I just want to speed the process up. I’m so eager to switch into this “other side of me” that I know exists now.
Will holosync help? Is it worth the cost? How quickly can I expect to start seeing concrete changes?
Like I said before. My main problem now is massive insecurity and social anxiety. I know LOGICALLY now it’s all an illusion, pure BS if you will due to my earlier experiences (and similar ones I’ve had more recently) that showed me what I’m REALLY capable of. BUT the old feelings and habits keep coming back over and over.
Thanks for any thoughts you can share.
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