What are your thoughts on Love Spells?

From Anonymous:

“Hello Yvette, this will be the third try at this i have been meaning to send you this message for quite some time now. What is your thought on Love Spells? Its been a couple of years since i have been divorced and i am still madly in love with my ex wife. We also have a beautiful child together which makes it even harder for me. She says that she isn't in love with me any more like she used to be. It ended because of my foolishness, and i know if i had another chance with her, i can make her happy and live up to my end of the bargain. I have been to five different “psychics” and most of them said that she still loves me that she just doesn't want to tell me the truth about her because she is waiting for me to change, or she still needs time to heal. I felt really good to hear this but she doesn't show any sign of caring what so ever, she recently told me that she doesn't want to spend time with me because it is taking time away from her finding someone else and moving on. :( She told me this after i offered to take her to dinner and a movie and i told her it was friendly and nothing more. So here are my two questions. First, I have been researching Love Spells online some of them promise the return of lost lovers. What is your opinion on this? do they work? Second is Should i believe what these psychics tell me? that my ex wife does indeed still love me and that there is time that needs to laps? I am willing to wait as long as it takes for her i just wish to some day re unite with her. Thank you for your help.”

Re: What are your thoughts on Love Spells?

Inspirations from Binah:

A Love Spell may bring you together, but it cannot make her love you.  By forcing her to act against her nature, you are engaging in powerful Karmic forces that will eventually back-fire with terrible repercussions.  The world is made of balance and polarity - to affect the ying, you must also affect the yang.  I cannot tell you what will happen, but be assured that if you dabble in such magic, you will have something unexpected, and usually negative, happen as a result.

You are looking for an outside solution to a problem that originates and ends within you.  You mention psychics and love spells, but you don't describe what you have done to change your ways and improve yourself.  Even if you were to get her back, what assurances does she have that you are actually a different person from the foolish one that lead to the break-up?  No one wants to have their heart broken twice by the same person.

The best thing you can do is move forward.  Move on with your life and show her that you respect and care for her so much that you can give her what she is asking for.  Learn from your mistakes and realize that in order to ever have a chance with her again, you need to be the best “you” you can be.  Both of you need time to grow and heal.  If you are meant to be together, individual growth will lead to a renewed faith in the power of your love.  Trust in the journey.  Forget about the external factors and work from the inside out.