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  Joy Bringer : Visionary Creator & Artivist

Joy of Fear Exploration

Joy Bringer said Aug 11, 2006, 1:29 PM:

 

There is much we can learn from reconnecting with our fear/s.
If we only took the time to seat ourselves next to it. Or just listen.
Or just be present and observe his/her plays. Or share the silence.
With kindness and loving compassion as if we were unafraid…

As Cheri Huber shares with us in her marvelous “The Fear Book”:

“Fear is not what you think it is.
Fear is not who you are underneath your facade.
Fear is not the real you that you must somehow fix or improve or overcome.

Fear is a very useful signal along the path to freedom.
The stronger the fear, the closer you are to what you are seeking.
If you want to stay 'safe' (stuck where you are), fear tells you to stop what you are doing.
But if you want to be free, fear lets you know you are on the right track, it is a signal to push ahead in the same direction, to pick up the pace.”

Fearinsights

So here are some recent insights gained from the exploration & inner dialogue…

FEAR INSIGHTS
cc Darina S.'06

False evidence that
appears real or illusion
of separation

A trick of the mind
or useful sign of being on
the path to freedom

Fearless and unafraid,
noble or naïve expectations
of courageous souls

The fear of fear is
worse than suffering and pain
unless accepted

Facing curiously
exploring fearlessly with
loving presence

Time to demystify
and love it to extinction
with real compassion

Thanks to Denis/deze333 for the inspiration behind those insights and for the beautiful fire image.

Fearlessly Facing my Fearfullness with Joy… What about you? :)
  Mimir : Beginner

Re: Joy of Fear Exploration

Mimir said Aug 11, 2006, 6:51 PM:

 

Today, I was enjoying a quiet moment in the Swedish sauna at my club when a young woman sitting there offered that she was tired from staying up all night, from working on a speech she had to give later that day. She she she was nervous and afraid about it. Silence floated in the healing warm invigorating air. I thought say something to encourage her but hesitated because she was so open and lovely about her feeling that way. I did not want to intrude on a private think aloud moment of hers. Finally, I said to let go of the fear you have at being perhaps found lacking in the minds of others. Give the speech as if you only had yourself to please… she thought for a moment and said thanks for the advice, I will. Fera and joy together in a chance encounter at a health club. What more proof do we need of the Divine? - Mimir

  Joy Bringer : Visionary Creator & Artivist

Re: Joy of Fear Exploration

Joy Bringer said Aug 13, 2006, 1:40 PM:

 

Mimir,

We often think that fear excludes joy and vice versa. And this is such a good reminder that they can coexist, be experienced together and even be enjoyed… :) It is when we recognize that and embrace it or include and trascend in the integral world, that we can experience the most joy out of fear. Or so I think. :)

Thank you for sharing that interesting experience. Do share more of your wonderful insights and poems as well for us to un-fear and en-Joy,
Darina

  Joy Bringer : Visionary Creator & Artivist

Re: Joy of Choicelessness

Joy Bringer said Aug 13, 2006, 2:11 PM:

 

This one is inspired by this week's FRIDAY FIVE questions which are once again thanks to the great  Zoe and suzanne from the holy memes and kosmic blog starters pod

Choices_cornucopia

And while I am pondering the questions, enjoy the “Choices Cornucopia” poetic experience, I just created, above and below and share your choices or lack of such, if you choose to… :)

CHOICES CORNUCOPIA
cc Darina S.'06

Constant wondering within
Never ending mind play
Choices Cornucopia
Order in chaos
Labyrinth
Maze
Play

Facing fears and doubts
Security and control
Seeking pleasure
Avoiding pain
Decisions
Making
Doing

Environmentally sustainable
Culturally conscious
Socially agreeable
Politically correct
Most popular
Just & fair
Or right

This, that or those or there
Or something bigger
Something better
Must be better
It’d better be
Smarter
Best

Stop searching for meaning
Try include & transcend
End decision making
Instead of doing
Focus on being
On allowing
Letting

The Beauty of Wholeness
The Joy of Surrendering
The Sound of Silence
Full Immersion
One Taste
Just Be
One

X-posted with my blog and the holy memes and kosmic pod

  Joy Bringer : Visionary Creator & Artivist

Re: Go Within ~ Sonny Carroll

Joy Bringer said Oct 18, 2006, 4:12 PM:

 
Ring_through_the_mountains_by_vive_le_rock
“Ring through the Mountains” by Vive Le Rock

Go Within


When the road you are traveling, takes a sudden turn
and you find yourself standing at the edge of a precipice with nowhere to go …go within.

When you’re blind-sided by an unexpected turn of events that threaten to bring you to your knees
…and you feel as though you can’t go on…go within.

When lightning strikes and all that is left of your life is a burning ember flickering in the night…
When your strength is washing away in a deluge of despair…
and you cry out into the darkness but there is no one there,

When answer to “why” defies all reason and you struggle for hope and understanding…
it is then that you must go within.

For within you lies your strength, your spirit and your salvation…
the wisdom and counsel of the ages…
abiding love, forgiveness, acceptance and the will to begin again.


Copyright © 2003 Sonny Carroll
  Ian Gardner : Mystic*

Re: Go Within ~ Sonny Carroll

Ian Gardner said Oct 19, 2006, 12:16 AM:

 
Go Within

Very true, but I sat here thinking - how does the novice “Go within” and, having gone within, how does the novice bring the Truth and Understanding to the surface?

  Nicola : Truth

Re: Go Within ~ Sonny Carroll

Nicola said Oct 19, 2006, 6:40 PM:

 

I trust that some part of me knows exactly how to “go within”. That trust in myself to have the answers, if my intention is to truly get them, has never steered me wrong.

I remember this January, I was doing a course and was struggling to figure something out. A friend of mine suggesting appreciating the space that I was in, struggle included, and to really have the intention to have resolution by the end of the day. Amazingly enough, we both sat down to listen to the most incredible workshop and tears started to roll down my face, because my questions started being answered in what the man was saying.

Ask and you shall receive. Very true to me. And we have to get out of our own way to let the answers come - allowing the Truth and Understanding to the surface.

Much love to you Ian!

Nicola

   Hey_Jude : Growing Toward the Light

Re: Go Within ~ Sonny Carroll

Hey_Jude said Nov 25, 2006, 10:46 AM:

 

So true!  As someone told me recently. being groundless is such fertile soil for growth. (I had both parents pass on and my long time spouse leave a year ago, but I have made more forward/ inward motion and growth in the past year by going within.  I also rely on my faith in a higher power that made me whole, complete, and wise now–all I have to do is listen to the still small voice within.–Be well-Lotusflower

 

I Am Not ~ Sonny Carroll

Herbie [no longer around] said Dec 3, 2006, 6:03 PM:

 


I Am Not
***********


“I am not the texture of my hair, nor the color of my skin.
I am not the contours of my face. So please refrain from making judgments based on my heritage or race.
Instead, look deep into my eyes, where you will discover that in many ways, you and I are like one another.
Strengths and weaknesses born of the human condition, prayers in the night and acts of contrition.
No doubt, we share the same hopes for a better tomorrow.
No doubt, we have struggled with the same pain and sorrow.
Look into my eyes and you will see that parts of you are like parts of me.
No doubt, I have cried your same tears and known your same fears. Have made a toast to life and sang your same cheers.
I am likely nothing of what you perceive me to be. But like you, I am only a spirit that longs to be free.”
  Joy Bringer : Visionary Creator & Artivist

Re: Help Me Become Musings

Joy Bringer said Oct 18, 2006, 10:07 PM:

 
Inspired_seeing


Today something happened
Whenever such thing happens
It shakes me deep within

What would happen
If anything I think Does happen
Without me doing anything
Just being…


Human becoming
Resisting awakening
Help me become

Sudden unfolding
In the core of my being
inspired seeing

Simply surrender
Stop suffering & struggling
Be serenity


Some random musings, insights and haiku… Enjoy and keep musing! :)
D  a  r  i  n  a
  Nicola : Truth

Re: Help Me Become Musings

Nicola said Oct 19, 2006, 6:30 PM:

 

I posted this on the Empowered by Poetry site, but wanted to add it here too:-

Darina, such exquisite couplings… your words with the artistry.

From our beingness comes the inspiration about what if anything we should do. When our actions are divinely inspired then it does not feel like struggle, like we are working too hard or like we are trying to force things into creation. It then is a natural unfolding for us to get the very things that we desire… All starts with our beingness…

Thanks for your precious gift!

Nicola

  Joy Bringer : Visionary Creator & Artivist

Re: Joy of Clarity in Denial

Joy Bringer said Nov 14, 2006, 10:29 PM:

 
Clarity_in_denial
Clarity in Denial

There is no more pain
There is no need to search
There is nothing to find
There is nothing to do

There is nothing to prove
There is nothing to cover
There is nothing to agree
There is nothing to deny

No goals to achieve
No dreams to attain
No desires to chase
No roles to play

No choices to make
No people to meet
No causes to fight
No places to visit

No more struggling
No more suffering
No more denying
No more refusing

No more confusion
No more illusions
Nothing to have
Nothing to fix

No more pretenses
No more excuses
No more doubts
No more fears

No more hiding
No more trying
No more doing
No more lying

Nothing to change
Nothing to become
Nowhere to return
Nowhere to go

No love-less-ness
No loneliness
No darkness
No illness

Nothing really
Nowhere
No more
N-one
  C^3 : The Resting Sage

Re: Joy of Clarity in Denial

C^3 said Nov 15, 2006, 10:20 PM:

 

Bowing…
Bowing…
Forever Bowing…
In Surrender…
(Let it come…as it IS, as it will BE!

Hugs,
CCC

  mita : Awake-catalyst

Re: Going Within

mita said Nov 17, 2006, 5:51 AM:

 

This poem reminds me of a time 15 years ago….

 when I was standing at the edge, nowhere to go and nobody to turn to in a foreign land and out of that deep despair, angst, fear and desperation …..

Came the Courage to Change the things I can.…..

By taking total responsibility for my feelings, perception, emotion, beliefs,
attitudes and experience…..

And the realization that in the end only I need my Self to fall back on or stand up tall.

You may enjoy my pages who am I

and Poems that brought me uncommon Joy

Loved all  the poems in this thread.

Peace
Mita

  Joy Bringer : Visionary Creator & Artivist

Re: Seek To Know

Joy Bringer said Nov 24, 2006, 8:01 AM:

 

Mita,

You seek and you know. And what a wonderful collection you have assembled full of insights and wisdom - real joy for mind, heart and spirit. (The body likes it too :)

And here are some of the gems…

“The most beautiful and profound emotion we can experience is the mystical. It is the source of all true art and science. He to whom this  emotion is a stranger..is as good as dead” - A.Einstein
 

What we are looking for is what is looking. 
- St. Francis of Assisi

seek2knowbanr.jpg

  Joy Bringer : Visionary Creator & Artivist

Re: The Way

Joy Bringer said Nov 24, 2006, 8:06 AM:

 
The_way

The Way

cc Darina S.'06

I am dreaming about the way
I’m struggling to find a way
I am resisting all the way

Lead me on the way
Help me find a way
Show me the way

I am on the way
I’m on my way
I am the way

The way
To be
One
~
  Joy Bringer : Visionary Creator & Artivist

Re: Without ~

Joy Bringer said Dec 9, 2006, 9:09 PM:

 

Without

I pray without words
I cry without tears
I create without purpose
I dance without music

I suffer without regret
I endure without end
I grow without reason
I learn without pain

I enjoy without limitations
I feel without boundaries
I live without borders
I love without limits

  Glynda : Transformative Expressive Healer

Re: Joy of Fear Exploration

Glynda said Dec 22, 2006, 3:18 AM:

 

I love this thread. It makes feel I am not alone learning from fear. Fear directs me to Love, Compassion, Courage, Patience, and Faith. The One is All-Embracing. Instead of denying, struggling, fighting fear, I found out accepting and acknowledging it can lead to growth.

  Joy Bringer : Visionary Creator & Artivist

Re: Joy of Fear Exploration - All I need is to... Be Me ~

Joy Bringer said Dec 25, 2006, 10:55 PM:

 
All_i_need

Take it as a X-mas insight, revelation, poem, illusion, creation, heartcry and/or heartsong.
Whatever it means to you or whatever it is. For some things just are. As we are. May we Be.


I lost myself along the way
Amid all my fears and searching
I forgot my real essence
And fell into a crisis of purpose

I tried this and that and more
I failed many times in many ways
I picked myself, I willed myself
I disappointed myself, others, in & out

Until I realized something so obvious
So liberating & beautiful
So simple

That what I need is not love
But to Be Love
To Be Me

~

I also realize that during the holy days many of us are feeling blue for variety of reasons. You can always submit a prayer request online at UnityOnline.org for whatever reason. You know that the answer WILL come one way or the other. So be blessed!
  Joy Bringer : Visionary Creator & Artivist

Re: Joy of Fear Exploration & I Changed

Joy Bringer said Jan 3, 2007, 10:41 PM:

 

Change is the inevitable constant that surprises us, challenges us, makes us resist, appreciate, cry, laugh, forget, remember, trust, contract, pretend, avoid, give, learn, grow, embrace, awake, transcend, just be and start all over again in the mystery, paradox, beauty and awe of it all….

A lot of the changes are in process, progress or in wishful state of existence.
As I keep changing, I would love if we can share our changes or lack of such… :)


Cheers for the change that never changes or the never-changing that always does!

I_changed



I Changed
~

I changed my address
From abiding in my brain
To vacationing in my body

I changed my home
From existing in my mind
To living in my heart

I changed my focus
From trying to change the world
To changing nothing but/even myself

I changed my vision
From sensing with my eyes
To seeing beyond the senses

I changed my identity
From struggling human doing
To joyful spiritual being

I changed my purpose
From bringing joy to all
To being joy from within

I changed my motivation
From searching for meaning
To making each moment meaningful

I changed my goal
From avoiding a broken heart
To offering my heart to the broken-hearted

I changed my desire
From care-free bliss in the future
To living heart-fully in the now

I changed my attitude
From all I need is love
To all I be is love

I changed nothing
I changed everything
I am the change that never changes

cc Darina S.'06

  Nicola : Truth

Re: Joy of Fear Exploration & I Changed

Nicola said Jan 4, 2007, 5:43 AM:

 

Absolutely perfect Darina!

When I look forward to life as one big adventure after another and I am thrilled with the anticipation of “what’s coming next?” it always feels like Christmas eve and I can hardly sleep, so excited about what’s in all of those packages. It’s a child’s delight that is so sweet. It is such a nice change to being mired and restricted by adult rules and regulations that nobody puts on us but ourselves…. The discovery that “I create it all” to me is so freeing. I can choose fear or I can choose in any moment to feel something different, like curiosity, awe and amazement.

Much love,

Nicola