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Welcome to Light on the Water Near-Death Support & Interest Group!

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  Resurrected1 : Ariela -Quantum Leaper

Introduction...

Resurrected1 said Feb 27, 2007, 10:59 AM:

 

;-(
Am I the only one here? I feel so alone… (lol!)
Well, I definitely would like to know more about  “my people's” :-)
Suggest me a place, and I'll be there. I haven't found,yet, anywhere truly supportive where I felt I fit in.
I know about how it affects adults who are given “a second chance”… how it changes them… But how does it affect an infant, a young child?

  Nightingale : N2Light

Re: Introduction...

Nightingale said Feb 27, 2007, 4:16 PM:

 
Welcome, Resurrected1!  It's so lovely to have you with us, and you're definitely NOT alone – not in the least!  You'll start to feel 'warmer' and surrounded by other kindred spirits in a very short time!

Because I've been doing this work for a good while, I'm pleased to be able to answer your questions – especially regarding infant and child NDErs (near-death experiencers).  I, for one, am a child AND adult NDEr … and I could share a lot and will do in time…

Meanwhile, let me refer you to a tremendous must read book centred on child NDErs by a wonderful friend and fellow NDEr, PMH Atwater.  The book is entitled The New Children and Near-Death Experience and it is chock full of powerful information, drawings, photos and more – all centred on child NDErs.  What's interesting is that there are accounts of people who remember their prenatal experiences!  They remember being in the womb and actually hearing conversations by the parents; they remember their birth – all kinds of fascinating stuff – and I can assure you that this book is a page-turner.

PMH has been on my radio programme a few times and, in fact, was recently on again and will be back to do another two-part show in April.  There is a link to my radio show site in this group, so feel free to click it and check it out.  You can listen to all of the shows since the beginning, as they're archived!  In fact, last March, PMH was my guest when we debuted the show and we talked about child NDErs!

Don't ever be shy to ask questions or seek me out!  That's what I'm here for and I'm pleased and honoured to help in any way I can do!

In the Light,
JN :)

PS: If you go to www.TowardTheLight.org, scroll down the 'welcome' page until you see the image of a book and click on it.  That will take you to the 'NDE Books' page on my site where you'll see a number of wonderful and informative and inspiring books.  That should keep you busy for a while. :)
  Resurrected1 : Ariela -Quantum Leaper

We have Contact...

Resurrected1 said Feb 27, 2007, 9:04 PM:

 

Hello!

Yes, thank you for the links. I followed everything -you're right, it kept me busy for a while! ;-)
I am honored to have met your acquaintance Ms. Rev. Nightingale. Your experiences Touch me.
I  checked out Atwater's books - I think they're all amazing!

  Nightingale : N2Light

Re: We have Contact...

Nightingale said Feb 28, 2007, 10:02 AM:

 

Alas, my website is like a mansion with many rooms!  This is a mansion where people are welcome to hang out and relax for as long as they wish. :)

PMH is a wonderful soul and, in fact, she's been a major source of encouragement – even a 'push' – as she's such a believer in what I've been doing.  She's so real and genuine and very caring.  It's been such an honour to know her and work with her.

Here I was – a timid NDEr who kept everything hidden … and then all of a sudden, I just 'came out' and have now ended up on radio, TV, all over the press, and now having my own radio show – with some propositions from another radio station in the works!  PMH kept nudging me and encouraging me not to worry or be afraid … so … off the high-dive I went!  And I'm still swimming! :)

This is such a special group and can feel the growth already.  Feel free to share this with anyone you think might benefit from it.  That's what we're here for … and I'm so honoured to be a source of support and resources for all of you!

In the Light,
JN :)

PS: You can purchase a copy of PMH Atwaters The Complete Idiot's Guide to Near-Death Experiences through Toward The Light.  The book is now out of print, but we've got a few copies left.  She's just now completed a revised version of the book (but with a completely different title) that's to be an NDE encyclopaedia due out later this year.  If you've got any questions about this, please contact me!

  Resurrected1 : Ariela -Quantum Leaper

Re: We have Contact...

Resurrected1 said Mar 1, 2007, 10:25 AM:

 

My lovely Lady, I happen to have Recurring dreams about Mansions and lots of rooms! lol!
So I feel quite at home…
I found it fascinating, that I JUST blogged about how I feel like everything is new, that I look around as if a newborn— and there it was! It's an experience we all share!
Is there a common vision NDE's share, from your vantage point? Or are we to just “Heal the room we're in”???
Here we are at Zaadz so it's obvious I want to do more than that, especially when the Room I've been sent to heal doesn't want to be healed…
I want to be a part of something Bigger…any ideas?


Love All Ways…

  Nightingale : N2Light

Re: We have Contact...

Nightingale said Mar 2, 2007, 9:09 PM:

 

That is so auspicious that you were seeing mansions in your dreams.  I love it when this type of synchronicity occurrs.  That's very powerful, indeed.

There are so many types of NDEs and reactions to them as there are humans.  Some people 'contract' (or constrict, as it were) and shut down after their episode – never to say a word … and even going into denial about the NDE episode!  Others, like myself, will take time to 'come out' and others, still, will leap right in and proclaim to the world that they've had a profound experience.

Fortunately, in recent years, there's been so much media coverage and dialogue centred on NDEs and related topics that are ideally helping timid NDErs to come forth and share their experiences and seek support and resources without fear of being judged of ridiculed – as I was in past.

I can't think of anything more painful than to have someone look you square in the face and tell you that you're either 'hallucinating' and/or 'in need of psychiatric evaluation' – all of which is bullocks, but it still hurts just the same.  These experiences are so intense and life-changing, that one should be able to find support, resources and understanding individuals who will be kind and helpful.  Alas, no one should have to be subject to harsh criticisms and judgements – all of which serve to shut the individual down, which can cause even more psychological and emotional damage – but especially with kids!

That's why I'm so adament about this work – because I've been a victim of such harsh behaviour levied upon me and I'm trying to do my part to help eliminate others having to go through the same thing.

One is NOT 'crazy' for having these other worldly experiences and they are very real, furthermore!

I'm going to dare to come right out and make the statement that the traditional allopathic method upon which the psychiatric system is based is complete and utter nonsense for the most part!  With a system that only acknowledges the physical plane as 'real', how can such a system be true?  It cannot!  We are multi-dimensional and multi-sensory beings living in a multiverse … but it takes brave souls (like certain NDErs) to come forth and share the deeper truth about life and love as a result of going through such profound experiences.

I think that's why so many of us were sent back – so we can share the wisdom … the truth … the love … and the peace that surpasses all understanding – not to mention the complete elimination of fear! – that results from such an experience.  We've come to help remove the blanket of ignorance that has shrouded our world for such a very long time. 

A lot of NDErs have got the choice to either remain on the Other Side or return to this plane; others, however, are told that they have to return to this plane in order to fulfil a certain task – either involving family or to share the truth of eternal life and other wisdom gleaned from the episode – which was the case with me. 

At first, some of us may just work 'in one room', and then expand out from there in time.  I started very small myself, then I started to expand in how much I was reaching the masses.  When I was asked to be on TV, I knew that there was no turning back now … and Spirit wouldn't let me turn them down!  So now I've covered many rooms at this point and still growing with the work. :)

Unconditional love is real – not merely something we hypothesise and use as a 'buzz' word or fancy cliché.  We are shown a reality that far exceeds anything we could ever have imagined on the physical plane.  This, in turn, liberates and frees us … and we come to know, in no uncertain terms, that we are one with the Source and with one another.  We can never be separated from Source either – only perceive (erroneously) that we are separate.  No matter what, we are always loved… :)

Every time I'm able to assure someone that one is not 'crazy' I see the whole demeanour of that individual change.  One suddenly becomes so much lighter and also realises that one is not alone and that there ARE people who not only understand, but who have also been through similar experiences as well.

Everyone will always find a 'welcome' mat here; the door is always open and there is a comfortable and safe place for all who enter…