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A discussion of the meaning and application of the Tao Te Ching (by individual verse - 81 total) utilizing translations by Wayne Dyer, Jonathan Star, Stephen Mitchell, Byron Katie, Richard Grossmen (1891 version) and Vimala McClure.
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Verse 61 - Living by Remaining Low

debyemm said May 17, 2:46 PM:

 

61st Verse

A great country is like the lowland,
toward which all streams flow.
It is the reservoir of all under heaven,
the feminine of the world.
The female overcomes the male with stillness,
by lowering herself through her quietness.

So if a great country lowers itself before a small one,
it wins friendship and trust.
And if a small country can lower itself before a great one,
it will win over that “great” country.
The one wins by stooping;
the other, by remaining low.


Contemplation/Meditation Verse

My loved ones and I cannot, and will not,
            be impacted by the presence of evil,
anywhere in the world.


By staying calm, and under the radar,
            others will ultimately join me in 
friendship and trust.

           
Do The Tao Now

Each day as you grapple with how to be an effective leader in your family, in your country, and in the world, apply the following advice from Sai Baba.  This is what he counsels readers to do whenever they question what action to take or how to think:



When head fast eyes are horrified
by the cruelties of life …
When your mouth is parched
and you can hardly speak,
The first sip of cool water
I am soothing you.
Think of me.


In a moment of crisis, silently say Think of me to your mental image of the person who won you over by stooping and remaining low.  You'll immediately find your way, as if that individual were directing you to overcome the struggle, addiction, or ego-dominated thoughts that seem to take you away from your feminine, Tao nature.

Source - 
Change Your Thoughts - Change Your Life (Living the Wisdom of the Tao) 
by Dr Wayne W Dyer

  debyemm : Tree Hugging Dirt Worshiper

Re: Verse 61 - Advice from Dr Dyer

debyemm said May 18, 2:32 PM:

 
Reassess your personal view of what constitutes strength.

Can you see power in humility, stillness, and remaining low and out of sight?  In martial arts, the strongest conqueror is the one who uses the least force and converts the lunges of his opponent into his own might.  Look at the story of violence throughout human history:  Those obsessed with positions of power ultimately resort to brutality, and then incur the same kind of violence on themselves.  And so it is in your personal life.

By staying calm and under the radar, others will ultimately flow to you, joining with you in creating friendship and trust.  As you stay in this yin, feminine, Divine-Mother mode, you'll radiate energy and strength and win over others … including those with an aversion to change.  Think of yourself as the ocean and stay low enough to allow all others to stream down to you and create a “great country” wherever you elect to settle.
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Re: Verse 61 - Advice from Dr Dyer

debyemm said May 18, 2:40 PM:

 
Emulate those whose greatest impact on humanity
used the least violent methods.

There are many examples to be found for living by remaining low, replicating the example of stillness and yin energy.  Jesus Christ, Buddha, Mohammed, Zoroaster, Saint Francis of Assisi, Gandhi, Mother Teresa, and others of the highest spiritual persuasion serve as wonderful role models for us.  By demonstrating the exact opposite of what has become known as power by force, they changed the course of human history.  Furthermore, they are remembered with the highest esteem by all people.

You can become a similar leader of the Tao in your immediate environment, smiling inwardly as you see yourself as that low, patient ocean.  All those who wish to tower above you in conquest will ultimately flow down to you.
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Re: Verse 61 - Stephen Mitchell & Byron Katie

debyemm said May 19, 3:02 PM:

 

From Stephen Mitchell - tao te ching - A New English Version

When a country obtains great power,
it becomes like the sea:
all streams run downward into it.
The more powerful it grows,
the greater the need for humility.
Humility means trusting the Tao,
thus never needing to be defensive.

A great nation is like a great man:
When he makes a mistake, he realizes it.
Having realized it, he admits it.
Having admitted it, he corrects it.
He considers those who point out his faults
as his most benevolent teachers.
He thinks of his enemy
as the shadow that he himself casts.

If a nation is centered in the Tao,
if it nourishes its own people
and doesn't meddle in the affairs of others,
it will be a light to all nations in the world.

From Byron Katie - A Thousand Names For Joy - Living in Harmony with the Way Things Are

                                                      Humility means trusting the Tao.

No one has ever known the answer to Why?  The only true answer is Because.  Why do the stars shine?  Because they do.  Why is the glass sitting on the table?  Because it is.  That's it.  In reality there is no why.  It's hopeless to ask; the question can't go anywhere - haven't you noticed?  Science may give you an answer, but behind that because there's always another why.  There is no ultimate answer to anything.  There's nothing to know, and no one who wants to know.  Just have fun with the asking, because there are trillions of answers, as many as the stars in the sky, and not one of them is true.  Enjoy the stars, but don't think that there's anything behind them.  And, ultimately, do you even care about an answer?

The Work is wonderful, because it leaves you with the real thing, beyond all answers.  It leaves you with no concept of who you should be.  There are no models, no ideals; the goal isn't to be wise or spiritual.  You just notice what is.  I like to say, “Don't pretend yourself beyond your own evolution.”  What I mean by that is “Don't be spiritual; be honest instead”.  It's painful to pretend that you're more evolved than you are, to be in the position of a teacher when it's kinder to yourself to be in the position of a student.  Inquiry is about the truth, which doesn't necessarily look the way you think it's supposed to look.  Truth is no respecter of spirituality.  It only respects itself, just as it appears now.  And it's not serious; it's just God laughing at the cosmic joke.

If someone comes toward you with a gun and says he's going to kill you and you're scared, go ahead and run.  That's no less spiritual than any other reaction.  But if you don't have a belief about it, you're free.  You can run or stay - it doesn't matter, because whatever you do, you're at peace.  Oh, you might think, he thinks he's going to kill me.  You could just as well be filing your nails.  That's freedom. 

  debyemm : Tree Hugging Dirt Worshiper

Re: Verse 61 - The Tao of Emerson

debyemm said May 20, 6:26 AM:

 

From The Tao of Emerson by Richard Grossman

From James Legge - The Texts of Taoism, 1891

What makes a great state is its being like a low-lying,
          down-flowing stream -
It becomes the center to which tend all
          the small states under heaven.


To illustrate from the case of all females -
The female always overcomes the male by her stillness.
Stillness may be considered a sort of absement.


This it is that a great state, by condescending
          to small states, gains them for itself;
And that small states, by abasing themselves
          to a great state, win it over to them.
In the one case the abasement leads to
          gaining adherents,
In the other case to procuring favor.


The great state only wishes to unite men together
          and nourish them;
A small state only wishes to be received by, and to serve, the other.
Each gets what it desires,
          but the great state must learn to abase itself.

From Ralph Waldo Emerson's Essays - ”The Sovereignty of Ethics”, ”The Over-Soul”, ”Education

The excellence of men consists
          in the completeness with which
          the lower system is taken up into the higher -
A process of much time and delicacy.


Those who are capable of humility, of justice,
          of love, of aspiration,
Stand already on a platform that commands
          action and grace.


This is the law of moral and mental gain.
The simplest rise as by specific levity,
          not into a particular virtue,
But into the region of all virtues.


Sympathy, the female force, is more subtle, and lasting,
          and creative.

  debyemm : Tree Hugging Dirt Worshiper

Re: Verse 61 - Jonathan Star

debyemm said May 21, 8:38 AM:

 

From Jonathan Star - Tao Te Ching - The Definitive Edition

A great state is like a river basin
          that receives everything flowing into it
It is the place where all things come to rest
          where all the world is welcomed

The low is greater than the high
The still is greater than the restless
          The low country wins over its neighbor
          The still female wins over the male

The Sage wants to uplift the people
The people want to follow the Sage
          only by being low does this come to be
The Sage bows to the people
The people bow to the Sage
And when they lift up their heads
          only greatness remains

  debyemm : Tree Hugging Dirt Worshiper

Re: Verse 61 - The Tao of Motherhood

debyemm said May 22, 6:07 AM:

 

From The Tao of Motherhood by Vimala McClure

61


INDEPENDENCE

The mother's energy is so 
powerful because of her feminine
receptivity.  She yields and
conquers through her calm.

The child's energy dominates.
He feels so powerful !  Only the
mother knows it is her strength
upon which he draws to build
himself.

Thus both reach their goal of
independence.

  debyemm : Tree Hugging Dirt Worshiper

Re: Verse 61 - Dr Dyer's Essay

debyemm said May 24, 4:06 PM:

 

Most of us have been taught that it's important to tower over lesser folks in virtually all of life's endeavors.  We're told to “get to the top”, “stand out in the crowd”, “be the best”, and “honor champions” who defeat challengers.  We're expected to pay homage to those who make the most money, collect the most material objects, and evoke the most fear and obedience because of their positions of power; and those who deign to live among the “commoners” are the least deserving of our respect.  This passage of the Tao Te Ching invites us to reevaluate these beliefs.

Look at the ocean: It's the most powerful force on the planet because it stays lower than the streams, which are necessarily and inescapably drawn to it.  As the rivers flow downward to become one with it, the sea is able to be the great reservoir of all under heaven.  This is what Lao-tzu refers to throughout the Tao Te Ching as the “great Mother” or the “feminine of the world”.  That female energy, or yin, is the true receptor of all; by remaining quiet and still, it ultimately overcomes male (yang) efforts to subjugate and conquer.

In the 61st verse of the Tao Te Ching, Lao-tzu speaks of the advantages of leading by remaining low, using entire countries as his examples.  He makes the case for nations both large and small to be like the great ocean.  As he observed warring territories attempting to vanquish each other by exerting their strength, he saw that peace and harmony could only be possible if the territories behaved in accord with the Tao - that is, by subjugating their egos rather than their neighbors.

Lao-tzu was addressing countries and their political leaders in this chapter, but countries are made up of individual men and women.  We need to become a critical mass of individuals who are willing to model the wisdom that the great Chinese master offers us.  We all must learn the value of making a dramatic change in the way we think of ourselves and each other.  Yes, it may require a complete about-face on our part, but if we begin to lessen ego-dominated thinking, sooner or later the world will get the message that Lao-tzu proposed in ancient times.  Nations all over the globe will find that leaders with feminine yin energy are beneficial.  After all, this is the way of nature … it is the Tao at work.

You can apply the wisdom of this verse in the business world or with anyone you encounter by updating the notion that towering above others in the yang approach of masculine domination is the way to get ahead.  Instead, see the value of living as if you can win trust and friendship through a yin approach of feminine receptivity and stillness.

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Re: Verse 61 - Living by Remaining Low

debyemm said May 24, 4:28 PM:

 

I'm not really sure what the lesson is, in my having these thoughts, but I will share them with you.  On my hike today, I found yet another area of severe damage to trees.  Almost any spot in our forest that I can stand, I can see such damage within my line of sight.

The striking thing about the damage is that it is ALL the big, old Oak trees, with the large crowns, that have gone down.  Those that tower over the others and take the majority of sunlight and nutrients from the area where they stand.  I am reminded of the saying - “the bigger they are, the harder they fall”.  It must have been uttered by someone observing such damage as I have had to absorb.

I have struggled with these lines as I contemplated this verse -

The female overcomes the male with stillness,
by lowering herself through her quietness.

- although, I understand that women have developed ways, that do not require brute physical strength to promote their interests.  In attempting to gain my husband's agreement for me to attend the Chicago conference in June, I did not show undue excitement or enthusiasm for it.  When he derided me slightly by saying “if you need it for your sanity”, I bravely said “No, I don't need it for my sanity” and then, added honestly “I can't say what I would get from going, it is just something I've always wanted to do”.  That is honest truthfulness.  I could not answer the question “why” that Byron Katie talks about in her essay.  I resonated strongly with her example of what constitutes a “spiritual” reaction.

Eventually, by “staying low” keyed about it, my husband was able to “win” by telling me to go, to get it out of my system.  Truly, we both won, and we did it honestly.  It is like the example in the verse - the big country does this and wins, the small country does this and also wins.

I did very much like Dr Dyer's contemplation verse of protection in this study.

Ralph Waldo Emerson's words make me understand even more why we have a President Obama today.

I really appreciated Jonathan Star's ending verses -

                    The Sage bows to the people
                    The people bow to the Sage
                    And when they lift up their heads
                             only greatness remains


It is nice that the feminine energy is so much a part of this verse, as I look out my window, upon the abundance of green energy filling my sight with leaves, that are reaching the end of their peak growth.  They will do their mature work throughout the summer, before changing into the colors that will delight our eyes in the Autumn.

Wishing you the fondest memories of loved ones gone, which remain ever in your heart, this Memorial Day.  May you and yours have a most excellent time just being together.

Deb

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Re: Verse 61 - Living by Remaining Low

Meenakshi said May 24, 4:57 PM:

 
The Sage bows to the people
                    The people bow to the Sage
                    And when they lift up their heads
                             only greatness remains

Beautiful! And how you see it working in your life, Deb.
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Re: Verse 61 - Living by Remaining Low

Meenakshi said May 26, 5:53 AM:

 

Jujitsu : Ju, yielding; Jitsu, art or technique. A martial art that employs the illusion of yielding to an attack to overcome it.

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Ju-jitsu (or Yawara) is an ancient Japanese Martial Art. Its origins date back to the sixteenth century when legend narrates that its founding father, a young Japanese man called Shirobei Akiyama who was studying medicine in China, witnessed a heavy blizzard. He was able to appreciate how branches of most trees broke while the elastic branches of the Willow tree bent and efficiently freed themselves from the snow.
The Gentle Art or Art of Subtleness (for this is the meaning of Ju-Jitsu) would not aim to neutralize power with power but rationally absorb an attack and convert that energy to the opponent’s own detriment. This basic principle became the heart of the teaching of the Yoshin ryu school, founded by the Akiyama and considered to be the foremost Ju-jitsu dojo.

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Yoshin-Ryu Jujutsu (Yo, meaning “willow,” and Shin, meaning “heart or spirit”) was devised by a military doctor from Nagasaki named Shirobei Yoshitoki Akiyama. Akiyama had studied battlefield and healing arts in Japan, and was already a master of several systems of Jujutsu, as well as ken-jutsu and weaponry. Wishing to extend his knowledge, Akiyama went to China to study in the 1600s. There he studied medicine, katsu, and various martial arts, especially striking arts and their use as applied to vital areas (Kyusho-jutsu). He also studied Taoism, Taoist healing, Taoist martial philosophy and acupuncture. He created, with the assistance of his nephew, Takei Akiyama, the foundation of the art by incorporating his training in China with Japanese methods, forging a syllabus of over 300 techniques.

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