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Have you ever experienced love/a strong connection at first sight

Ashley said Oct 1, 2008, 10:50 PM:

 

Have you ever met someone and instantly felt a connection with them?  Be it the connection of instant friendship that lasted decades, or love that lead to a strong and sound relationship, or even of connection of understanding or empathy that changed your life in that moment. 

  FastDart : Peaceful Arrow

Re: Have you ever experienced love/a strong connection at first s

FastDart said Oct 2, 2008, 8:37 AM:

 

Sure have..right here in Gaia.

  Mikey_Dee : A hoot and The frumious Bandersnatc

Re: Have you ever experienced love/a strong connection at first s

Mikey_Dee said Oct 2, 2008, 10:09 AM:

 

Lars, that is the opposite of Tmi(too much info) ,I would like toknow more please-details! names! etc.

  FastDart : Peaceful Arrow

Re: Have you ever experienced love/a strong connection at first s

FastDart said Oct 2, 2008, 10:46 AM:

 

MD it's a secret but the evidence is there.

  Principessa : Gaia Explorer

Re: Have you ever experienced love/a strong connection at first s

Principessa said Nov 17, 2008, 5:42 PM:

 

yeap… i never believed such thing can happen until it happened to me… so now i know its possible…

 

Re: Have you ever experienced love/a strong connection at first s

Dave [no longer around] said Nov 17, 2008, 6:10 PM:

 

Yup.. fer sher.. her name was Mirror.  lmao

Actually, it happens all the time… there are so many connections that we cross paths with… and we need to allow our hearts and minds to be totally open to each and every signal.

A friend named Jody, just this weekend, shared with me that there are connections at many levels… messengers, acquaintances, friends, intimate friends, lovers, soul mates…

Anyway.. trust the connection… and it does not always mean love at first sight… but it sure culd.

Love ya

Dave

  Domus Ulixes : Some Kid

Re: Have you ever experienced love/a strong connection at first s

Domus Ulixes said Nov 18, 2008, 1:22 PM:

 

Honestly? Really Honestly? Remembring that I used to be a real unsocial einzelganger? And knowing that relation are very rare?
All the time really :P Don't know why.

  ch3shyr3_cat : avant garde

Re: Have you ever experienced love/a strong connection at first s

ch3shyr3_cat said Nov 18, 2008, 1:30 PM:

 

I've felt that with alot of people.
Like I've known them throughout the ages.

I love that feeling.. Makes me feel.. not so alone in history.

 

Re: Have you ever experienced love/a strong connection at first s

Andrew [no longer around] said Nov 18, 2008, 3:55 PM:

 

I felt that way towards you Ashley, from the very first communication.

That was an easy question to answer…. :-)

An eccentric Aussie (or village idiot)

  willowinthewind : listening

Re: Have you ever experienced love/a strong connection at first s

willowinthewind said Nov 18, 2008, 8:09 PM:

 

Have I ever met someone and instantly felt a connection?  One that lasted, was sound, lead to POW expansion in my being, compassion, ability to evolve??

Oh, YES.  Right in the heart.  Bull's eye, bingo, ivewaitedallmylife kinda surge.

Oh, yes.  “Messengers, acquaintances, friends, intimate friends, lovers, soul mates…”  They are out there, looking for us as passionately as we look for them. 

:)  We really do need each other.  It's a kinda Oneness thing.

Peace.

  Jackie : Protector of the Innocent

Re: Have you ever experienced love/a strong connection at first s

Jackie said Dec 6, 2008, 5:23 PM:

 

My husband!  Most amazing thing in the world.  Hehe, good thing too, because barely three months later I was preggers with our first boy!  I should post a picture of the night we met.  I don't know why I fell head over heels…He was completely unshaven, his hair a mess with a silly baseball cap on it and he was wearing a bright green 1UP shirt, like from Mario Bros.  It was a Halloween party.  His costume?  A vampire cape from walmart with the huge tag still on it.  Him and his friend were going to try and return it the next day.

 

Re: Have you ever experienced love/a strong connection at first s

Dave [no longer around] said Dec 6, 2008, 6:51 PM:

 

If our hearts are open, we experience love connections everyday. Everyone of us.

The problem with society is, the vast majority of people associate love with family, or a sexual relationship.

One day, we will recognize the power of connections, and love, as the purview of everyday life… the connections of destiny.. rather than some mystical connection that rarely occurs.

What a sad world we live in, when emotional connections are so rare, or ignored.

D

 

Re: Have you ever experienced love/a strong connection at first s

nimrod [no longer around] said Dec 8, 2008, 7:51 AM:

 

I got set up for a blind date with a friend of a friend named Dave.  He came to my apartment on the evening May 24, 1975.  From the moment I laid eyes on this guy, I knew something profoundly mystical was happening between us.  It was like I had known him from a previous life, although prior to this, I had always been pretty dismissive of that kind of  stuff.
 
Thirty-three years later, we're still together and still wildly in love.  Go figure.

  Nicole : wakingdreamer

Re: Have you ever experienced love/a strong connection at first s

Nicole said Dec 14, 2008, 6:37 AM:

 

oh yes, again and again, in terms of friendship - not yet as in “love of my life” but it's great to read the stories of those who have!

Light and peace,

Nicole

  gina : Gaia Child

Re: Have you ever experienced love/a strong connection at first s

gina said Dec 16, 2008, 2:35 AM:

 

This is a very interesting question and not so easy to answer.  As for “love at first sight” I don't consciously believe in it. For fireworks to go off and bells to play, not reality, however, once the initial impact is over, then the connection starts if we allow it too.  (forgive me for I am writing this at 429 in the morning and babbling).  If we go for the relationship aspect, many of us have that “connection” and are lucky to have it.  After a couple of marriages, I know now that I have my “soulmate”.  He started out as a good friend and it literally very slowly developed into a relationship that has lasted nine years.  We are still growing with each other.  Differences do come up, yet when something is amsiss in our relationship, we both feel the frustration and we don't give up, just try to communicate to make the bonding hold and through the years, the connection has remained there, the broken links are fixed and we anticipate more broken links and know that what we have will always be and face them together.  That is the strong connection.
The other connection is with my daughters.  That is a strong and unbreakable bond even through distance and differences.  A tone in a voice illuminates and through the day one feels the “difference” in the heart and seeks to “mend ” it.  There is nothing like a mother's love and the sense that we can feel pain, hurt and anger through our thoughts and dreams.