Enlightened.thinker : Light-plerker

Re: Sexuality

Enlightened.thinker said Apr 23, 2007, 2:48 PM:

 

Intimacy is not well understood. We can be intimate and not have sex. We can have sex and no be intimate. Intimacy is trust and true understanding. Sex with intimacy is wonderful! It is a meaningful expression of connection!

Sex without intimacy is a drive for contact. It is a function of biology.I do not judge those who wish this to be their choice, but I do feel sad to see FWB(Friends with benefits) take away some of the sacred-ness of the act.

Passionate Marriage is a wonderful book to describe the difference! My husband and I read it together and really understood and connected on a more intimate level.