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Re: Understanding Second TierUmguy said Jul 16, 2006, 1:37 PM: |
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Interesting post. I sometimes think 2nd Tier is made to be seem a little more complicated than it is. If you’re aware of how people develop through levels and see the value in each level, then you’re probably there. One of the things I think about when I get to feeling that maybe I’m being vain in believing I at least think for 2nd tier is that I can point to when I went through the green meme. When I was at the center of it and thinking completely from it and when I started to bump up against it’s edges and get frustrated by it (when the belief you’re not allowed to
Eventually I read things like Wilber’s work and Spiral Dynamics and they had a very freeing effect. Then there was a period where I had to kind of go back and look at each level and learn to appreciate it. And some levels were hard to do. Coming out of green it wasn’t easy fo rme to go back and look at where blue and orange institutions are necessary and healthy. But like you said, and I agree completely with this, if you haven’t been through green, you’re probably not really talking 2nd tier. There’s a time when you realize how damaging and limiting a lot of your judgements are and then you head for green and eventually you have to reclaim judgement, but judgement that’s been sensitized. Thanks for the post. Interesting stuff to think about. |
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Re: Understanding Second TierJulia said Jul 17, 2006, 7:01 PM: |
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Hi Seth - I think we're all just trying to understand what 2nd Tier is, including folks like Don Beck and Ken Wilber. I think there are a lot of misconceptions out there, as there are with any theory. Speaking of theories…theoretically folks in 2nd Tier understand the importance of all the first tier vMemes, but when I test people on the SDi Values Test, I find that most people who are strong on Green thru Turquoise are correspondingly weak on Red and Blue. They tend to be anit-violent and anti-moralistic. Not really surprising, if you know these people, but does that make them truly 2nd Tier? Take care, Julia |
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Re: Understanding Second TierAlbert said Jul 26, 2006, 5:49 AM: |
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Hi Seth, I can only recommend for all are seriously interested in the work of Graves and Don Beck to participate in the SDi Yahoo group, moderated by Dr. Don Beck and his many colleagues to learn first hand and 24/7/365 online : http://groups.yahoo.com/group/spiraldynamicsintegral/?yguid=41701184 Description
Especially all themes in the Middle and near East are commented in a highly qualified memetic view and I see the most advanced integral positions represented by the Master Spiral Wizard and his core team. I was kindly invited by Mr. C4:):) to inform about ressources ,texts and articles which are already dealing with concrete initiatives and action steps. Time to deal with real problems, real people and real solutions in the Middle East. Not only doing armchair integral analysis. Much even to read, to learn ,to know. Best, Albert
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Re: Understanding Second TierAlbert said Jul 26, 2006, 6:00 AM: |
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And here a link to C4 blog which some info comments from me: http://coolmel.zaadz.com/blog/2006/7/sacred_cows_mgms_fubar What Don has already written in his essay “Hard Truths &Fresh Start” about Bold,comprehensive and integral strategies for the Middle East; what steps already were taken and who is already involved. The Middle East and near East could provide great case studies now and in the future about significance,relevance and importance of any integral approach! And, in top oft hat, how European and American constellations/Networks/Meshworks could synergize, align and join forces to support the historic transformation of this region. what a challenge! Cheers, Albert |
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Re: Understanding Second Tierturtle said Oct 14, 2006, 4:25 PM: |
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S€ŦĦ, what do you think it is about a condecending attitude in someone that bothers you so much? Is it possible that this is simply wishful thinking (which we all are guilty of now an again, especially if we are still working with a first tier emotional level)? What about this first tier ego inflation seems so “poisonous” to you? |
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Re: Understanding Second Tierturtle said Oct 14, 2006, 4:36 PM: |
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Also, I'm wondering how you, personally, tell the difference between someone who is inflating their ego/level, compared to someone who is actually at that level, and has a healthy ego (non-attachment)? |
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Re: Understanding Second TierNicole said Oct 15, 2006, 3:30 AM: |
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This is interesting, because it comes at the same thing in another pod from a SD perspective. The point raised there was, aren't people a little too happy and positive on zaadz? Isn't it important to deal with the Shadow? |
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Re: Understanding Second Tierturtle said Oct 15, 2006, 7:54 AM: |
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One thing that has helped me a lot - especially when I'm feeling frustrated with the world and the condecending thought that “People just don't get it!” pops into my head - is to give myself some basic guidelines for how I act. When I'm annoyed at others for any reason, I try to bring my awareness back to the following ideas: |
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Re: Understanding Second TierJulia said Oct 15, 2006, 9:21 AM: |
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Brilliant observation, Seth! I'm reading Integral Spirituality now and haven't gotten to this passage, but yes, people tend to think higher is better and when they're coming from their egos, they want to be the best and highest. It's not really personal, but it can feel sooo personal. |
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Re: Understanding Second TierNicole said Oct 23, 2006, 3:54 AM: |
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Dear Julia, Turtle and Seth, |
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Re: Understanding Second TierJulia said Oct 23, 2006, 5:50 AM: |
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Hi Seth and Nicole - You're right, the larger problem is that people misunderstand or only partially understand AQAL and then defend that. AND thankfully, Truth tends to survive (although it certainly takes a beating, sometimes). |
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Re: Understanding Second TierNicole said Oct 23, 2006, 6:33 AM: |
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Dear Julia, |
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Re: Understanding Second Tierturtle said Oct 23, 2006, 7:06 AM: |
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Interesting, Julia. I've gotten a somewhat different picture of Ken. I've seen him change his mind many, many times due to other people's criticisms (I got this impression from reading some of his older books, and then some of his newer ones too). I think he really tries to be open to all other theories, and gives them a fair consideration before deciding if they seem useful or not. He really relies on a lot of research and study information to corroborate his conclusions, so I understand why he believes some theories far more strongly than others. I'm sure he's not perfect, though! And niether is the research and studies that he uses, I'm sure. So, hopefully, people who study his ideas understand that they need to try things out before buying the whole thing, lock, stock, and barrel. I agree, that's where the danger lies with any theory, if people take it as gospel. |
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Re: Understanding Second TierItlandm said Nov 22, 2006, 4:12 AM: |
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Already in the New Testament, nearly 2000 years ago, the apostle Paul notes that “knowledge inflates, but love builds up”. Knowledge has continued to inflate ever since, and still does. Don't believe that there is a special “second tier” knowledge that doesn't inflate the ego. In fact, I think needlessly going on about how one is “second tier” is dubious in itself. |
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Re: Understanding Second TierJulia said Nov 27, 2006, 7:39 AM: |
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I, too wonder whether the great leap to 2nd tier really is that great. The only big difference between yellow and the lower tiers is that yellow can SEE the lower tiers, which is an important step, but all the vMemes make important steps. |
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Re: Understanding Second TierRobin said Nov 27, 2006, 12:41 PM: |
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What is more important, the Label, or the BEingness......radiate soul light said Nov 17, 2006, 5:28 PM: |
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It seems to me, there is a lot of energies BEing exerted to comprehend the labels as asserted by another individual, as opposed to simply BEing the indivduals of love and light we are. How important is it really, to have reached 2nd tier, if in accord to another, reaching the 5th dimension of awareness is an achievement to strive towards……. a rose by any other name…. it is not necessary to turn to another for validation of where we are within our own BEingness…..
We, who ask, know where we are, and why we are where we are, and what we must do to transcend, in our continuous pathway to enlightened peaceful loving serenity, in awareness, TRUE. Is it so important to label the notches in one’s journey, when each notch is its very own, unique and individual perceptual reality, as are each of we, the faithful travellers….
Just some thoughts, questions, and my very humble perceptual reality of this, fabulous interactive forum. Blessed BE
Roni
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Re: Understanding Second TierDrake said Nov 28, 2006, 8:07 AM: |
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A lot of the conversation seems to be revolving around people who “know” they are at Yellow. However, I am not sure that this approach best states the issue because, there are plenty of Yellow vMemed individuals whom have no idea what a Meme is let alone the values associated with them. Thus the individuals that do believe they are Yellow (or any other color) have a tendency to let their conscious self-identification with the meaning of these stages affect the natural unfolding of that stage. Effectively asking themselves “Is this really a Yellow thing to say?” or “I don't think this reflects a healthy Yellow” when an individual begins to identify these stages and their attributes with their own personality you often get an artificially inflated stage response, which is I think similar to what Seth is saying about wrapping their ego's in a meme cloak. |
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Re: Understanding Second TierGraeme said Dec 6, 2006, 4:32 AM: |
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Hi,
Yellow is the finished ego. Authentic. Embracing of their light and dark - and so fully expressive. Spontaneous and fun. Fearless - well almost, it seems. It is a healthy mature ego, with wisdom and understanding abounding. In this case “ego” is not a dirty word. But spirituality this is not. Indeed I note a few yellow friends are fully agnostic - and they really want to make the most of the physical realms while they are still here. The next step is a decisively different one - ego surrender. This decision is saying even my completed authentic spontaneous self is still another form of selfish cycle. Its so easy in yellow as the thread suggests to be a tad arrogant, despite all the understanding. I suffer from this fault as well. This question comes up. Is love the core of me? I suspect when yellow face themselves squarely in the mirror they know there is so much thought present in their mind that the divine hardly has a place to shine through. So though I am wise in my yellow brilliance, i am still longing.
Surrendering all that knowledge. The so called non-seeking-mind must be allowed to open. If so, the process of turquoise is learning non attachment. Or unlearning attachment. “Surrender” is the decisive step to diminishment of the ego. Releasing “I know”.
This is handing my limited thoughts over to the divine - and that takes humility.
In this release can spirit - whatever the power is worded as for you - be allowed to completely fill the heart with love. Then can compassion be. Spreading out into the joy of being. For me the expanded feeling of this is a presence in which reverence and gratitude become most wonderful wordless conversations with the divine. (Just now these occurr in nice little “state” packets. But i learn how to open into this juice, and to do it my mind must be still, and to do that I find i must surrender my ideas. This is so different to yellow that I wonder wether Dr. Graves was premature in staking yellow as so really different to the other ego dominated states including and preceeding green. In any case the second tier division is fixed, so no point in persuing this notion… But what do you experience as the difference between yellow and turquoise?
Perhaps too many questions, but does one strike you to write? . |
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Re: Understanding Second Tierturtle said Dec 6, 2006, 9:09 AM: |
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Graeme, I believe you are on the right track here. As I see it, the split of second tier is not so much a letting go of ego, but of seeing the development process for the first time and coming to terms with it. Once you've past the stage, Green, where you accept diversity as a necessity and become aware of your own uniqueness, you can start to move into the stage, Teal/Yellow, where you can begin to really flourish and love your self at it's core (rather than the superficial you that you've presented for most of your life). This is the stage where the healthy self can finally bloom. Once it has, then you can move on to the stage, Turquoise, where you are able to see your own healthy self, and work on how to bring that beautiful individuality into service of the world. I would say that ego is here as well, though for the vast majority of people, you would look very selfless, indeed. And that's sort of the key to finally dropping the attachment to ego (not losing it altogether, since you do still need a healthy judging mind to live in the real world!). When you move into Indigo, the ego attachment drops away, and you begin to see in detail how your thoughts, feelings, and actions have an effect on the world. Then you fairly quickly move into Violet, where you will begin to be able to live life really successfully and naturally - you will just do what you need to do, and it will be good, regardless of whether or not it seems to have been a success or a failure, because you won't be attached to any particular outcome. It will all be seen as necessary, and you will realize that both success and failure are equally important and wonderful. When you get to Ultraviolet, you get to be a superhero! Everything you do will be amazing! |
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Re: Understanding Second TierJulia said Dec 7, 2006, 8:08 AM: |
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Hi Graeme - You've written some wonderful wisdom here. |
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Re: Understanding Second Tierturtle said Dec 7, 2006, 10:26 AM: |
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We've probably covered this before somewhere, but it might be helpful to define “spirituality”. It's probably the term that is most difficult for me to pin down when people speak of it. |
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Re: Understanding Second TierJulia said Dec 8, 2006, 6:37 AM: |
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Hmmm - Interesting! |
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Re: Understanding Second Tierturtle said Dec 8, 2006, 9:04 AM: |
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But which “it” do you mean when you, yourself, speak of spirituality? I have lots of really diverse and interesting experiences, and I know that I'm having them. And I bet you do to :-) Which ones are spiritual, and which are not? |
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Re: Understanding Second TierJulia said Dec 14, 2006, 9:24 AM: |
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You know, I mentioned in my Dec 7th post that the ego and spirit/Self (whatever you want to call it) begin to work together at yellow, but that a well-designed environment environment was needed for this to really work. this is similar to Don Beck's concept of “strategic habitats”. FREE 28 PRINCIPLES OF ATTRACTION ECOURSE: http://www.cartville.com/app/javanof.asp?MerchantID=67748&ProductID=3314196 |
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Re: Understanding Second TierTony said Dec 6, 2006, 10:13 PM: |
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Re: Understanding Second TierGraeme said Dec 8, 2006, 3:00 AM: |
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I considered Tony’s remarks, particularly in regard to Yellow having to surrender ego as part of embracing the shadow. Then last night a big shadow-informing dream comes along…and it does take surrender to to acknowledge that stuff, true. Humanities “evil” becomes less “judged” by another increment! Thanks Tony. I agree with you too Julia. Especially to remember that each stage has its spiritual aspects. I use the word “spiritual” to mean an awakening to the inner reality of our vast Self. Borrowing from a long Aurobindo sentence defining spirituality as.”..awakening to the inner reality of our being, to a spirit, self, soul which is other than our mind, life and body, an inner aspiration to know, to feel, to be that, to enter into contact with the greater Reality beyond and pervading the universe which inhabits our being, to be in communion with It, and a turning, a conversion, a transformation of our whole being as a result of the aspiration, the contact, the union, a growth or waking into a new becoming or new being, a new self, a new nature.” (those Aurobindo sentences!)
And this definition of “spiritual” - a gnostic inner-knowing of that “greater Reality” - is a turquoise experience, i believe. I don’t see Yellow necessarily wanting that as they go about “living fully and responsibly” existentially. Green seeks but therefore doesnt completely find the inner spiritual communion, (except, like yellow, in temporary states), blue puts Spirit/God in heaven and in purple mind the spirits are multiple gods or of the ancestors. Also there can be great rituals in purple and blue that do invoke a communion among the tribe or believers. But turquoise places It within more consciously, and finds that consciousness is at once expansive and loving. Anybody out there respond to:
A new Q: Is it through unconditional love that we expand into the vast Self, and embrace the holistic reality thats referred to as Turquoise? My asking here is that in descriptions of Turquoise I have seen there seems to be reference to holistic communion with but little instruction (injunctions) on the subjective aspects of the conscious attractor. Is unconditional love the vMeme of Turquoise as you experience it? Graeme |
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Re: Understanding Second Tierturtle said Dec 8, 2006, 10:45 AM: |
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Greame, thanks so much for your very beautiful and thoughtful response! I'm inspired! |
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Re: Understanding Second TierGraeme said Dec 8, 2006, 10:03 PM: |
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Hi Turtle,
I agree there is this distinction as you have outlined; the feeling of love and the action of love. The latter might be more like your expression on “compassion”. The former is a feeling available to an infant and probably even happy doggies! Heres a quote form Mother Meera on “Love” - “To go on doing for people what they need, without expecting anything in return, that is love”. That definition places love as selfless and as an action. In its selflesness it would probably be placed more into the turquoise phase as compared to self expressive yellow. Which turns me again to propose that humility and surrender are hallmarks of the Turquoise where unconditional love becomes the focal meme. Does yellow act out of selflesness? Not according to the Graves theory. Turquoise does, defining its modus operandi, wherin this stage has the depth to both embrace and serve humanity motivated from its big heart. My reading of St Theresa of Avilla’s “Interior Castle”, is that Turquoise is the fourth, heart centered “mansion” within. It is in the Fourth Mansions of The Interior Castle, says St. Teresa, that “we now begin to touch the supernatural.” She states her process there as the Prayer of Recollection (of realizing God within; because “the soul gathers together all its faculties and enters within itself to be with its God”). Theresa describes this Recollection as aquired through simplicity, and contemplation on the loving awareness of God. [It is not yet fully infused with the mystical power that comes in a metamorphosis into Union occurring in a later stage in her mansion series, ie on the spiral]. I guess the point I’m trying to make for we who inhabit mainly Yellow is its still a selfish phase. We will be limited there for as long as the notion of surrender to a higher power (implicit in the upper spirals) is unwelcome to us. My observation of quite a number of mature age yellow friends is that as “God” is the source of most of the problems in human history and still is for the souls in religious belief lower on the spiral, that the whole notion of Godly-saintly-spiritual seeking is a foolish opiate. And this is accompanied by a strong sureness in their own multifasceted wisdom. My sense is that only impending death will crack some of these certainties. I note those who have had near death experiences get a big hand up the spiral, and selflesness is a real part of them following their experience. Since noone wants to be so foolish as to give away so much that was earned (humility is a dirty word to the ego) herin lies the torment of this transition. This development of Turquoise is marked by a desire to serve life and express love rather than seek our own self fulfillemnt. I don’t believe we can haul our narcissism much further up the spiral past yellow; indeed I propose it is just that ego-self we leave behind consciously as we turn that corner of the spiral. |
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Re: Understanding Second Tierturtle said Dec 9, 2006, 8:09 AM: |
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Hi again, Graeme! |
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Re: Understanding Second TierGraeme said Dec 12, 2006, 1:10 AM: |
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God! What a great word and meaning to de and recompose at each rung of the spiral! I think it’s a significant part of the spiral process (determining our God View), just as is Self View and World View. Turtle, on meanings of words, I’m have a problem understanding some of the colors you use to describe the spiral stages. You introduce a few colors not normally used as part of the SDi color scheme originated by Don Beck. Is there something else that you use for your color scheme? Please translate. Graeme. |
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Re: Understanding Second Tierturtle said Dec 12, 2006, 6:57 AM: |
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Sorry about the confusion Graeme, I'm using both the SD colors and the Ken Wilber colors (based on the chakras/rainbow). I use both to cover all my basis, and because SD stops labeling developmental stages at Turquoise. For most of Wilber's color scheme, check out the diagram at the Holons “What is Altitude” page. For some reason, they don't have the levels above Indigo listed there, but they are Violet and then Ultraviolet and the “Clear Light”, at least according to Ken's new book, Integral Spirituality. |
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Re: Understanding Second Tierclyde said May 17, 2007, 2:16 PM: |
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An amazingly fascinating discussion. |
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