Gaia: Getting UnStuck - Stuck NO'mo....

realizing it was never sticky...

Mon, 06 Nov 2006 02:29:17 GMT

..seeing the light in my daughters eyes, knowing it was not ever OK to think this kind of treatment would be acceptable if her husband... or boyfriend.. was treating her like this... knowing that the shoulders of women are wide... we can take it on because.. we can ... and we do .. and actually try and make it better... only 1 day realize it is totally not Ok to see where I had gone and what was left... I needed to be whole. through my daughters eyes.. I found strength of 10 women. painful?.... yes, but worth it 100 times over.

I believe that life is all about relationships.... that without interaction with others... brothers, sisters, friends, parents, lovers..... without it we would be 'stuck' in our own fairy tale of masks. Relationships force us to work through the real beliefs, thoughts, values, and lessons we came into this world to work through. When we hide from interaction with others - we die. I choose life - unstuck.... staying free... seeking growth and openness. Healing... laughing and all the more life will grace me with. The risk is worth the ... sometimes real pain... it is worth the double edge sword that sometimes comes with such extreme joys. I choose to feel...... 6 years.. and then as simply as through my 1yr old daughters eyes... it was all so clear.

How I get unstuck

http://wyatt.gaia.com — Fri, 21 Jul 2006 19:30:09 GMT

Hi all... new to zaadz!

Really stuck this morning, I started a new feature on my blog. I'm a Natalie Goldberg fan, so I decided I'd post writing prompts each day for people (and myself) to respond to. I love how it gets the thoughts flowing and breaks me out of my rut, turns off the internal editor and makes the wheels spin again.

Looking forward to more great conversations! I'm a writer and learning specialist in Santa Rosa, CA. You can take a look at my blog at www.keepconscious.blogspot.com.

Wyatt

we are what we consistently do...

http://valerian.gaia.com — Thu, 13 Jul 2006 19:44:05 GMT

so a little "unstickiness" this morning. i woke up and, for an hour, wrote part of a treatment for a screenplay i've been wanting to create. a whopping 4 paragraphs!!! big deal, right? nevertheless, because of that little movement, I AM NOW A WRITER...because i've done it. ofcourse, there's much more to do but it has to start somewhere. for me, it just happened to be today.

i think the biggest thing was watching "No Direction Home" (Martin Scorcese's documentary about Bob Dylan) last night. Dylan. now there's an artist. not much kept him stuck for very long for the length of an entire decade. in his light, writing for one hour didn't seem like too much to ask.

we are what we consistently do. i am a writer. yeah.

Re: Unstuck as well

Wed, 12 Jul 2006 04:42:05 GMT

I am going though the same thing.

Sometimes being stuck is where

we need to be to move forward.

Congrats!

Unstuck as well

http://mamallama.gaia.com — Sun, 09 Jul 2006 04:49:41 GMT

Yes, I was stuck for a few months. A huge all-encompassing project in Feb, Mar and April left me fried and not knowing where to go next.

It was just a time I had to live through. The universe was trying to tell me to rest, something I don't do.

So after two very unproducting months, the unsticking is underway. Buying a house, packing up, putting the good stuff on ebay, selling the junk at a yard sale today. Clearing out the debris and clutter helped tremendously.

Another week and its time to load the truck and moooooooove on.

Unstuck at last!!!!!

Sun, 25 Jun 2006 05:13:31 GMT

After years and years of self-healing... programs...groups...more programs... books.... workshops.....therapies.....groups and more groups, I was amazed that I was still feeling stuck and unhealed.

I sought after every avenue to heal myself to be free. However, I was still stuck. In great despair......I stopped everything and let go of it all. I had to stop, I was exhausted and baffled at the stagnation of my life and the years of healing and the

thousands of dollars spent.

I cried for days.....prayed......meditated. Those were the only things I could seem to do.

I then was guided to a wonderful mentor......a life coach. Everything changed after that.

Wayne Dyer's, Power Of Intention CD's came into my life. That's all I would listen to in my car. The book, "Ask And It Is Given", by Esther and Jerry Hicks, came as well, I read it every night. New people, new events seemed to stream in out of nowhere. I'm laughing a lot, and feel like I am finally living my life for the first time through new eyes.

I saw that I was keeping myself stuck.....

Every thought is essential, and my thoughts were creating a blockade.

I am paying attention to my thought patterns and when they don't resonate at the highest vibration of universal love....I stop and let it go.

It's working. It really is! I'm finally having movement and feel like I am in partnership with the universe, working together.

I am so grateful and blessed.

Blessings to you all.

Navah

Unstuck

Fri, 26 May 2006 04:59:15 GMT

OH MY BELOVED All those endless days……… You came to visit me While I was gone I sat & sat & sat Waited …………..elsewhere… You were sitting here! I, so blind, I could not see you For all my aching for you I felt so alone Then the rains came With those terrible thunder storms I knew I’d never find my way home But you found me Stuck, wallowing deep You wrapped your love around me Fed me, carried me home My breathe is warmed now My heart full.

Re: Unstuck Wah-hoooo.

Fri, 26 May 2006 04:09:46 GMT

Oh dear wrong link:) Kundalini etc.

Unstuck Wah-hoooo.

Fri, 26 May 2006 03:58:26 GMT

I want to share something with you - Have A Beautiful Day And now I'll tell you my story. I cannot stuff all 6 file drawers of my journals in here so I'll do the next best thing, effort to make this short! My messy childhood (who hasn't experienced that!!) made a hell of a foundation for motherhood so that was rather a mess as well. We all suffered! By the time I was in my late 30s (1970) I was incapable of even holding any reasonable employment & heading into a 4th divorce. My Soul ached for peace. Give me peace or give me death, as I was certainly dying anyway. One morning I awoke to the feeling that both my legs were as if two cement columns. I had recently been told to start a journal & a new tablet lay blank on the night-stand. I intuited that I would be alright, somehow get through this new challenge, if I picked up the tablet & wrote 3 good things about myself. It took a mighty long time to stretch over to it, get the pen, & an even longer time to think up 3 good things about me! .......................!! (If I told you all that I faced in that final year of Eternal Stuck-ness I doubt you would be able to believe me, so I'll just go on with the story.) One by one I wrote as the answers trickled out: I am a good mother........ I have tried my best with what I have........... &..then for .......the first time in at least 20 years I cried as if dams had burst........... I never finished writing the 3rd good thing. I began sobbing.....on & on .... into exhaustion, until I had to pee. Only upon standing did I realize my legs were no longer cement. The crying started all over again & on the potty I made my decision. In spite of all the resistance from all family members for years on end, I would go back to school no matter what they said or did. And I did. They deserted me from all ends: my father, my husband, & my adult children. Don't feel sad for me it is all just as well. From then on it was a fast paced BA psychology, MA world religions, ten years living in spiritual retreat centers & monasteries & bla bla bla & except for short bumps along the way I have never experienced stuck-ness since. Now when I hit a hard place in the road I allow myself to settle into it, feel it, talk with it, & learn all I can from it & then leap out of it; bad bumps usually last no more than 24 hours now:):):) If you are curious I have put a few stories on my blog about my friend Kundalini, etc....... Blessings & Love to all, there is hope! There is freedom from being stuck, even freedom from getting stuck! PJ